Thoughts, Feelings & Coping Assessment

Assess patterns between thoughts, emotions, and coping responses.

Unhealthy Coping Worksheet

Part 1: Identifying Unhealthy Coping Patterns

Instructions: Reflect on recent situations where you felt distressed or overwhelmed. Identify

any unhealthy coping mechanisms you used. Examples include avoidance, overworking, unhealthy habits, or negative self-talk.

Situation: Describe a recent situation where you felt distressed or overwhelmed.

Unhealthy Coping Mechanism: What unhealthy coping mechanism did you use in this

situation?

Impact: How did this coping mechanism affect you and the situation?

Part 2: Identifying Unhelpful and Negative Thoughts

Instructions: Recognize and write down unhelpful or negative thoughts that occur during

distressing situations. Try to identify any patterns in these thoughts.

Situation: Briefly describe a situation where you noticed negative thoughts.

Unhelpful/Negative Thought: What was the specific thought that came to mind?

Pattern Recognition: Have you noticed this thought pattern before? If yes, in what situations?

Part 3: Identifying and Understanding Feelings

Instructions: Reflect on the feelings that arise in response to your thoughts. Understanding

your emotions can help in managing them better.

Situation: Describe a situation where you had strong emotions.

Feeling: What specific emotion(s) did you feel? (e.g., anger, sadness, anxiety, frustration)

Intensity: On a scale of 1-10, how intense was this feeling?

Physical Sensations: Did you notice any physical sensations in your body associated with this

feeling? Describe them.

Shalom Bayit Journal Resource

This educational resource is intended for reflection and growth. It is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or crisis support.

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